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PCAR - 30 Years - 1975-2005

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VOICES AGAINST SEXUAL VIOLENCE

Katie Carranza
It hurts.
It fucks up lives
22 October 2005 - CA

8 yr Survivor
We need to challenge and read into the the things we say, see, and participate in. It is the only way to change attitudes toward girls and women. The process is slow, but well worth it!
11 October 2005

Jaketk
One day I will not be shunned, ridiculed or mocked. One day I will not be told to suck it up and take it like a man. One day I will not be called a wuss for being raped by a woman for 8 years. One day people will actually think that female perps exist and that I was not lucky and that what was done was wrong. One day I won't be called a rapist or a pedophile for speaking about my abuse. One day I, and the millions of other male survivors, will count, too.
6 October 2005 - Illinois

Njeri
Ending sexual violence includes preventing the secondary abuse of victims by those who shun and mock them, those who disbelive or dissmiss them, those who [verbally] assault them all over again.
4 October 2005 - MD

vm
It happens more than we know, therefore more should be done.
4 October 2005 - texas

Mellisa Napier
Speech for Take Back The Night
Hello my name is Mellisa L. Napier, I am a survivor of Sexual Assault. I am speaking out to make it stop here in Newark. I wish it could in the whole world entirely. I want to share my story because I was a victim now I am a survivor.
February 7, 2003 is a day I will never forget. I finally told someone on August 7, 2004. These dates are forever engraved in my head. I would still be suffering in silence.
I went through a lot after being assaulted (raped). I was treated differently at school, home, everywhere I went people said look she was raped do not talk to her, Do not be her friend. It went as far as the parents of my classmates saying “Stay away from her, she is a whore” as well as other dirty names. I was asked such questions like “Why did you wait so long to tell?” “You must have enjoyed it for you to wait so long.” I thought it was my fault. I was ashamed, afraid, confused. I lived in fear, could not sleep, angry all the time, I even started cutting so the pain would go away. This really made me angry because not everyday does someone hold you down and rape you by force.nothing happens to him. He rubs it in my face everyday by stalking me, standing out front of my house, hides in the neighbors trees.
I am here to Stand up for what is right and as a support for others. You are not alone! Do not be afraid to speak out. Something must be done to keep our victims from feeling like rotten bananas.
I decide to start speaking out. I have come along way since February 7, 2003. It is not a good thing that I was assaulted (raped), but if this had not happened to me, I would not be here now helping other men and women. I took so much for granted before I was (raped) assaulted, like thinking it could never happen to me. Guess what? It did. So you can not take anything for granted. I think at first, this was hard on my mom and dad, in the end it turned out differently. My mom speaks out now. Her name is Stephanie Hughes.
2 October 2005 - Oh

Papoose
I was molested at 5 years old. I never told. Not until after I suffered years of psychological and physical symptoms, 2 abusive relationships later in life and state aid money on therapists and medications. I didn't tell until I became a mother and realized that if my daughter has any hope of a better life, then I have to give her the example of strength! It is very difficult on my relationship with myself, with my husband, with my parents and siblings. I couldn't wish this pain on anyone - it must stop!!!
2 October 2005 - NY

Karen
I am a survivor and can tell you that prevention is the best form of victim services you could ever have offered me.
26 September 2005 - Georgia

BIR
As I was growing I knew I cannot trust men. As a teen, I simply know that I had bad experiences with men. As a lady of 37 years old my mind released what happen almost 14 years ago.
25 September 2005 - Connecticut

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22 September 2005 - CA

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VOICES AGAINST SEXUAL VIOLENCE